Admire Your Own Vision

Is a good vision necessary?

Sheikh chilli sat on the same branch which he was cutting. What if he had a good vision to see the branch in front of him? 

We always cut those ropes which supports us while falling.

We always strangle those lives which keep us alive.

We often whack those bulls who pull our load.

Why do we need to know that if we want something to happen good with us, we must see what is good for us and what not?

Does it certainly matter if what we discern about anything or anyone must be naive? Or are we just over assuming about someone or something?

                            Photo by the Creative Exchange

All these questions have a common heritage of doubts which makes us think if we are honest or dishonest about ourselves, about anything related to us, our life.

Being realistic about our decisions is a tough choice, especially when it's related to any other person.

All these questions need answers, though hard to give, will try to make 'em clear to you in this particular blog.

What Is Vision?

We see some things and speculate a few thoughts about 'em. Our way of understanding might be different from others, might be foolish for some and reasonable for others.

It's the way we think and make our thoughts about the world. These ways of thinking are collectively called a vision.

                                     photo by Paul Skorupskas

Do My thoughts matter?

Before answering this particular question, let me ask you one simple question.

Do they matter to you?

If No, then don't ask this question. If you won't value yourself then your personality won't matter to anyone. If you are an important personality at your home then it's not necessary to become the same in society.

As I said earlier, your thought might be foolish to some. So society may think that you are worthless. It's your duty to let them know your worth in your absence. 

If Yes, then I can assure you one thing.

Yes, they matter!

Your own way of thinking might seem odd and ridiculous but it matters. Maybe not for some but surely for a few. You have to work and grind for those Few.

Some People don't respect my Thoughts, What can I Do?

Do nothing. Explain yourself.

If they still ignore your thoughts, then let it go.

Why force someone to accept your way if he/she doesn't admire your decisions.

Even when you know they are making funny decisions right now, ignore them. 

Obviously, you can't force anyone at all for anything. Don't give a damn when they just want to be fun in front of others. 

How to know if I am right or wrong?

It's easy. 

If you think it may not affect your own life in any aspect, let it be family, relationships, friendships, etc. then you are absolutely right.

But remember one thing, if you think that your notion may disturb any of the above, think twice.

Is it okay to Doubt my Vision?

It is okay to doubt your vision, your perspective, your consideration, your notions, your way of doing things, etc.

It is totally okay.

But remember, if you have thought about every fine aspect of something you are going to do or speak, you are good.

                                              photo by Miguel Bruna