5 Things to Learn From Backbenchers In Life

"He was the weakest in his studies during his education. 

He was the most hated student among teachers. 

He was the dumbest in every subject.

He could never get good scores in any exam.

He was friends with more students like him in the class who we called the back-benchers.

But he is a successful and the happiest person now among all the students of our batch.

But How?

Let us read the 5 most important things that a back-bencher teaches us in our life.

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1. Stay Away

Stay away from all the badhi chadhi baate about life that we hear every day. badhi chadhi baate means the thoughts that we hear from surrounding about being successful in life, creating a perfect future since childhood, being the best in everything, blah blah blah.

So what do you mean? Being serious in life is not necessary? 

Don't misunderstand my sentence here, it's very thick, it simply means if you know the present, then you don't need to think about the future. Why think about the future if what we are doing in the present is going good.

See, going good doesn't mean becoming a topper in exams, getting medals in competitions, etc. If you are simply achieving them then that is great, but if you are wasting all the significant time just to become a topper or to become the best and then get stressed out, depressed frequently then you should have a good thought process about yourself.

But if you are enjoying working hard to top or get medals, get appreciation, etc. then no need to worry.

2. Confidence is the key

A backbencher is a person who is always confident in his life even if he tops or drops. 

See life gives you chances always, you just have to stay in the race. There is no need to grieve if one chance is lost, prepare for the next.

Stay in confidence.

3. Smile

Enjoy your life, it's very precious. Don't waste it in being a horse of the race. Work hard, dream big but don't waste your life just working. 

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Our ancestors did a lot of work, at that time there was no Alexa or Siri to get work easy to do. They worked hard but they enjoyed too. 

Happiness is the key to live a successful life. 

4. Friends Therapy

Imagine you are going through a tough time, you are struggling, you are having a lot of demands from several people around you.

But there is a group of friends that you have who is standing behind you and saying silently, don't worry bro, time challenges everyone. We are here to share your sorrows and time. Let's face whatever challenges you.

This is called friends therapy. The main problem in life is that we don't have people to share our thoughts with. So don't forget to make friends, you don't need to be an extrovert to have them, just be yourself and you will get the best suitable people for you.

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5. Don't Stop

Ups will come.

Downs will come.

Life may be fast sometimes.

Life may be slow sometimes.

Don't Stop.

A backbencher is the one who laughs in tough times even when he or she is fighting. You have to smile and continue the hustle. Never stop. Take some breaks but don't break the chain of hustle that you have been doing. 

You are strong and you are far better than what you think about yourself. You just need to think about the backbencher inside your mind. Don't take the negative sides of them. Focus on the light, darkness will disappear suddenly.

Have breaks, have fun, have success, dream big, think big, enjoy every single moment of your life.

Don't over-enjoy your time and don't stress out yourself too.

You are perfect :)

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